The sexual act of 69 is intimate and extremely pleasurable when performed properly. This particular position is great because both partners can give and receive oral pleasure simultaneously. The posture of the bodies allows each partner a full view of each other’s genitalia. Needless to say, it is not a position for those who are a little bashful.
The 69 position, with the woman on top of the man, gives the man access to the clitoris, the vulva, the anus and the perineum (the patch of skin between the vaginal opening and the anus.) This posture can increase enjoyment of the act as the man is able to stimulate much more than just the clitoris. Moreover, in this position, when the woman stimulates the man’s penis with her mouth, the frenulum (the underside of the penis’ head) rubs against her palate, creating a unique and wonderful sensation for the man. There are several 69 tips that can improve a couple’s sexual encounters.
Since both partners are getting up close and personal with each other, it is recommended that both parties bathe beforehand. The beauty of the 69 position is the intimacy; however, this closeness can quickly become uncomfortable if either participant feels that their personal hygiene is not at its best. Taking a bath or showering together is a great idea as you will not only get clean, but you will also get turned on.
It is not necessary to continuously use your mouth in the 69 position; many 69 tips advise you to also use your hands, not only to vary the sensation, but also to give your mouth a break. An enticing addition to this sexual act is the use of flavored massage oils and lubricants. Be sure to choose non-toxic types that are both edible and non-irritating.
The most important of 69 tips is indeed the positioning. Most people practice it with the woman on top and the man on the bottom. It can be satisfying the other way around, but the man’s weight often becomes cumbersome for the woman. And, women usually enjoy being on top because they have more control over their own pleasure. Men are typically in favor of this position; however, it can trigger premature ejaculation. It is therefore advisable that the man begin stimulating the woman first as this will prolong the experience for everyone involved. The man can prop a pillow under his neck to avoid muscle ache and stiffness. Many lovers practice the 69 position with both partners lying on their side in order to optimize comfort.