Foreplay Tips for Fun and Pleasure
Foreplay is not just about sexual pleasure through kissing, fondling and oral pleasure; it is about establishing closeness and a feeling of intimacy with your partner. There exists a multitude of ways to engage in foreplay and, if both partners are comfortable with their choices, there is no right or wrong way to go about it. There are many foreplay tips that can serve to heighten your pleasure, as well as boost your confidence in the bedroom and keep things hot!
Oral Stimulation
The most common form of foreplay is oral stimulation. When it comes to performing fellatio or cunnilingus, or even the two simultaneously , there is really only one rule and that is to always be mindful of your partner’s comfort level. As long as personal boundaries are respected, the sky is the limit in this area. There are techniques involving hands and tongue, but the real trick is to experiment and pay attention to your partner’s reactions. If a woman’s breathing quickens and she arches her back as a man performs a certain act, then it is safe to assume that something is being done right and it is a go.
One of the popular foreplay tips regarding oral sex involves one partner sucking on an ice cube or chewing minty gum before performing fellatio or cunnilingus. The cold sensation is said to be quite enjoyable. Certain materials, such as velvet, fur, latex, fishnet, feathers and silk, brushed against the skin can produce erotic sensations. Running a string of pearls along your partner’s genitalia can produce a very intriguing sensation. There are numerous forms of sex toys available on the market that enhance oral stimulation, such as lubes, massage oils and flavored condoms, but regular household items or various tasty foods can also do the trick.
Location, Location, Location
Another one of the more common foreplay tips does not involve a sexual act, but a change of scenery. Foreplay can be taken to new heights by a simple location change. The bedroom has its moments, but taking sex outdoors, or into the shower, or even into the car (pulled over and parked, of course!) can be a lot of fun. There is nothing more thrilling than being naughty in the woods where you could possibly get caught, or getting soaped up in a bath for two when the hot water tantalizes your body with every move you make.
Kiss Me Please
Foreplay tips are not always about performing fellatio or cunnilingus. Many people associate these acts as the major components of foreplay, and forget that kissing and fondling are important as well. A slow sensual kiss (or a passionate, fiery one) can do wonders in kick-starting a sluggish libido. Breasts and nipples should not be overlooked. By the way, many men enjoy having their nipples teased and squeezed just as a woman does.
A Mental Connection
There are several foreplay tips that do not require any touching at all. The communication of sexual fantasies can be a verbal form of foreplay. It can get a couple primed for sex without even a single touch. All lovers have a particular scenario they would like to try out. Conveying these fantasies to your partner is a very intimate and trusting act, and can serve to enhance your sex life significantly.
Another non-physical form of foreplay that can amp up a dull sex life is dirty talk. Tell your partner what you would like to do and have done to you, and watch the excitement build. Watching pornographic films together in which others are engaging in sexual acts may give you new ideas, and is thrilling because it makes you a voyeur.
Any Fetish for You?
When exploring foreplay tips, one will come across the field of fetishes, and they are countless. Some are more intense and hardcore than others, but as with all areas of sex, experimentation is imperative. Fetishes can be as tame as a foot fetish that involves kissing and sucking toes, to domination of one partner over the other, whereby pain is often intrinsically linked to pleasure. Fetishes open up a whole new world of sexual pleasure, but it is most important to respect your partner’s personal limits.
Written by Dr. Seth
Dr. Seth has devoted his career to the field of sexual health. His experience and skillful approach to counseling to increase sex drive put him in a unique position to answer your questions and concerns. See his website at www.increasesexdrive.com.
