The Top Four Fellatio Tips
Fellatio is the practice of stimulating a man’s genitals orally. A common pleasure activity in the animal world, as well as in the history of mankind, it has progressed in popularity from borderline taboo to the point of becoming a regular feature in many people’s sexual practices. Fellatio does not only provide intense enjoyment for the receiver, but also fosters a sense of empowerment in the giver; thus we should question the claim that it is promoted by men for the sake of their own pleasure. While not everyone likes giving or receiving fellatio, its increasing prevalence as a means of sexual expression is appreciated by many.
The following fellatio tips should make your man writhe with pleasure:
1. Impart enthusiasm. Let go of your inhibitions and show him how much you enjoy pleasing him. Concentration and excitement in the process of oral sex are important factors in securing your partner’s enjoyment, as opposed to a lack of interest or self-consciousness which would negatively impact your mate’s pleasure. Noises, dirty talk, and body language are all ways of broadcasting the right signals.
2. Familiarize yourself with your partner’s genitals. Remember that a man’s penis is most sensitive at the head, which comprises the epicenter of man’s sexual pleasure. Stimulation here is likely to be more intense than anywhere else. However, that does not mean that attention should not be given to the shaft or scrotum. It is worth noting that the penis head is not as sensitive as the female clitoris, and can therefore bear direct stimulation. Nevertheless, we are all different, and individual preferences should dictate the plan of action to be used on your man for maximal pleasure.
3. Use every tool you have at your disposal. Although the literal meaning of fellatio is ‘sucking’, this movement of your mouth should not be the sole performance. Your lips, tongue, breath, hands and fingers can be used to heighten his pleasure. You should lick, kiss, exhale and stroke in several different places. Saliva is an excellent lubricant and the slippery feeling will add yet another dimension to his enjoyment. Be careful with your teeth, as your partner will not appreciate getting nicked. Eye contact and dirty talk during fellatio can be powerful tools in maintaining the height of sexual pleasure.
4. Know your limitations and that of your partner’s. ‘Deep throat’ is the practice of inserting the entire penis into your mouth and throat; it is a unique skill that is limited to a few as it requires suppression of the gagging reflex. If you wish to try it, begin slowly and stop if you feel you cannot handle it. Swallowing semen is optional and should be your choice, not your partner’s. Finally, realize that not all men respond in the same fashion to these fellatio tips, and some may be unable to reach orgasm from oral stimulation. Do not assume that they did not enjoy it.
These fellatio tips will help you satisfy your partner orally, and will be conducive to a wonderful sexual relationship. Practice, practice, practice makes perfect.