Foreplay
Preparation has never been so important. Sex is great but sex with sensual foreplay is incredible! Foreplay is a way to make the initial connection with your partner. Once you have that connection, the possibilities are endless. Not only will you be more comfortable with each other but you will also better understand how to please your partner.
Foreplay is an essential part of the whole love-making experience. While a spontaneous sexual encounter can be very pleasurable, including foreplay beforehand is very important. Why you ask? Let me enlighten you.
Foreplay helps the man to get an erection but most important, women need it in order to become properly lubricated (if no other lubricant is being used). Most women need prolonged stimulation to reach full arousal.
There is no such thing as spending too much time on foreplay. In fact, the more, the better! Men are able to switch from one mood to another with no trouble at all. They can be doing one thing and be ready to have sex in the next second. Women, on the other hand, are entirely different. Women need more time to become aroused; they pay more attention to the setting and the mood.
As well, foreplay becomes a learning experience. It happens to be a great time to understand what your partner likes or dislikes. Without knowing this, you won’t be able to fully stimulate them. It is about understanding what makes them tick sexually.
So what exactly is foreplay? There is a wide range of activities which can be considered foreplay including kissing, massaging, undressing each other, and oral sex to name a few. Remember to set the mood for women; they notice things like room temperature, lighting and ambiance (music, candles, etc.); it shows them you took the time to care.
In foreplay, be creative. For example, when removing each other’s clothes do it slowly one time and rip them off the next! Try both ways since variety is the spice of life. And women love it when you look them in the eyes, it shows them you’re thinking of nothing else (nor should you be!).
Maybe one of the most important forms of foreplay for a woman is the kissing. But don’t limit this action to the mouth; explore the entire body: ears, neck, shoulders, breasts, stomach, back, inner thighs, and so on.
Keep in mind, foreplay builds anticipation. So, when you’re sitting in an office all day and you and your partner have emailed each other intimate thoughts about what may happen later that night, you’ll be running out of the office to be together!
