The Top Ten Lovemaking Tips
It is common knowledge that sex contributes to an individual’s overall health and happiness. Yet, all too often, it is a part of life that easily gets stuck on repeat. Unfortunately, in a world where individuals operate on a time schedule, many couples have scheduled sex. Here is the scoop: sex is all about quality, not quantity. The frequency or number of sex partners you have is not as important to your general well-being and enjoyment as how it is performed.
Here are some lovemaking tips that can help you enhance your sex life:
1. Communicate
often, honestly and openly with your partner. This way you will stay aware
of their likes and dislikes and prevent misunderstandings.
2. Build up sexual desire between yourself and your partner. Phone calls, text messages, emails, notes and body language have the potential to entice long before you get a chance to get down and dirty.
3. Dirty talk is as valid a turn on during the sex act as it is in the leading up to it. You could whisper naughty words into each others’ ears and taunt one another with the promise of a sexual encounter at a later date.
4. Be seductive in your dress attire. Wear sensual, silky garments during your lovemaking as an alternative to your birthday suit.
5. Consider the atmosphere of the room. Music, visual romantic decor, scents and textures provoke the senses and foster desire. If you or your partner is not turned on by candle-lit romanticism, cuddle up and watch an x-rated movie together.
6. Do not limit sexual activity to the bedroom. The novelty of sex in a different room or, better yet, outside the home, is an exciting experience. Having sex in a place where you are at risk of being caught in the act can feel naughty, increasing the excitement and sensation of both parties.
7. Do not consider intercourse a compulsory part of the sex act. Expand on the foreplay, and consider other ways of satisfying one another. Occasionally, replace intercourse with exclusively oral and manual sex. Masturbating together is yet another way to provide variety to your sex life.
8. Educate yourself in the various ways of pleasing your partner. Find new positions or moves that interest you and suggest them to your partner. Give each other a body massage or take a shower together.
9. The use of sex toys during sex is popular. Everyday items such as food, kitchen utensils, and anything else you have around the house can be fun to experiment with. Your spontaneity can produce an extra spark before and during intercourse.
10. In the spirit of the former lovemaking tips, discuss some sexual fantasies with your mate, be it dressing up in a uniform or playing doctor, and act them out. Have fun!
The main prerequisites of these lovemaking tips are time, effort and an open mind. These are minor investments considering the potential returns of a stimulating sex life – additional fun, heightened pleasure, increased intimacy, and improved physical and mental well-being.
