Missionary Sex Tips
The missionary position, man on top, is the standard practice of love-making in many cultures. Originally advocated by religious agents as the only proper sexual position (hence the term missionary), its prevalence was based on the belief that it promoted conception and love because the participants were engaged in face-to-face, full-body intimacy. As such, it presented opportunities for eye contact, kissing and touching, making it the most frequently used position for first-time intercourse.
However, in spite of its positive attributes, the missionary position has come to be viewed by many couples as the trademark of sexual monotony and dissatisfaction. Women in particular tend to adopt this perspective, deeming it a vestige of men’s self-centered pursuit of pleasure in the dominant role. To add fuel to fire, the missionary position has the potential to quickly bring a man to climax at the expense of the woman’s enjoyment. The good news is that a few missionary sex tips can give you a new perspective on this position, and can spice things up in the bedroom.
Freedom of Control
Although the missionary position tends to entail passivity in the receiving partner, some freedom of movement is possible. The woman can thrust against the man with her hips by holding him closer to her body, or by pushing her feet back toward the bed. She is also able to control depth of penetration and the amount of friction to her G-spot by lifting her legs up behind the man’s buttocks, his back or over his shoulders. In this way, she can guide her partner into the desired rhythm of movement.
Missionary sex tips for the man include a distinct method of penetration that will increase the woman’s pleasure. By moving his body up and forward upon insertion, he can achieve greater depth inside the woman’s vagina. However, in this stance, he is not given much space to maneuver, but rocking motions back and forth will cause either his pelvic bone or the base of his penis to rub against her clitoris. Many women enjoy stimulating themselves in this embrace. In order to decrease sensitivity and prevent premature ejaculation, a lubricant can be used to reduce friction to the penis.
Another approach to the missionary position involves putting a pillow under the woman’s hips in order to maximize penetration and increase the pressure on her clitoris. Not only will the novelty enhance her enjoyment, but it will also augment the chances of orgasm.
The above are but a few missionary sex tips to point out that this position
does not have to be humdrum and the bare vanilla of intercourse. It can
be versatile, interesting, satisfying and fun. It deserves to be a regular
feature of your sex life.